If you click this link hoping for some advice to help you in a failed relationship you havent found it. I am just naming it that because i have learn and have been learning something about relationship. Yesterday I and lovely lady above had a convo involving the issues that where in my relationship happened.
The most wonderful thing happen, instead of me hanging on to a feeling that would usually run me away from relationship, i expressed it. I found so much peace in just opening up and being honest with my girl.
The idea is this people with experience often tend to condescend to people who dont have such experience. Instead of it being the riches and wonders of the love that is unique to the relationship. It often ends up being the downfall and even reproach of the relationship. In the end we need each others support. She doesnt need mine more than I need hers. Nor do i need hers more than she needs mine.
We need each other, we want each other. We want it. So however jacked up the experience was that push me to the level where i am. It leveled the playing field because what difference does it make that i know more and i do less than what i know.
I love this girl and i want to learn to love her better. So if there was any advice to be gleened then i would say it is. The only things that is making people generally incompatible beyond the natural differences is our own disposition to the person. I have learn to be vunerable and i thought i was until now.
Relationship is a live and learn experience. Not something a theory can explain or counsel can give a full experience. At the end of the day you just have to go ahead and try it out.
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